Divorce Quiz: Should You Get a Divorce?
A private, 2-minute self-assessment to help you understand where you stand — emotionally, financially, and legally.
What Is a Divorce Quiz?
A divorce quiz is a structured self-assessment that helps you evaluate your relationship, emotional wellbeing, financial trust, and long-term compatibility. This “should I get a divorce” quiz helps clarify whether your marriage is sustainable — or whether deeper change may be needed.
How This Quiz Works
Answer 10 questions across five key areas: emotional connection, safety, finances, conflict, and future alignment. Your answers generate a personalized score and a clear explanation of what it means.
How often do you feel unhappy in your marriage?
Have your attempts to improve the relationship made a real difference?
Do you feel emotionally or physically unsafe in this relationship?
How aligned are your long-term values, life goals, and vision for the future?
How is conflict typically handled between you?
How is the current situation affecting any children or dependents?
How would you describe financial trust and transparency in your marriage?
Is both partners willing to put in real effort to improve things?
How has your marriage affected your personal wellbeing — sleep, stress, and health?
If nothing changes in the next 12 months, how would you feel?
Each of 10 questions is scored 1–3 based on severity.
Your percentage reflects overall relationship strain.
This quiz is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, or psychological advice. If you are in an unsafe situation, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233.
Understanding Your Score
This quiz scores each answer from 1 (least strain) to 3 (most strain) across 10 questions. Your result is expressed as a percentage of total possible strain. Here’s what the ranges mean:
- 70–100% — Significant Strain: Sustained pressure across multiple areas. Professional guidance is strongly recommended.
- 35–65% — At a Crossroads: Real uncertainty and mixed signals. Worth exploring your options with a professional.
- 0–30% — Early Reflection: More stability than crisis, but your concerns deserve attention.
Frequently Asked Questions
No. This quiz is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not a substitute for advice from a licensed family law attorney, therapist, or financial advisor. Every situation is different — your results are a starting point, not a verdict.
Yes. Your answers are processed entirely in your browser and are never stored, transmitted, or shared. No one can see your responses.
Use your results as a starting point — not a final answer. Consider speaking with a therapist or family law attorney to get personalized guidance based on your specific situation. You can also explore our Divorce & Life Transitions hub for next steps.
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. For confidential support, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788. Help is available 24/7